Have you tried to ask?

[ it's a genuine question. ]

The worst thing that he could say is no. Or, maybe if he's too hellbent on chasing after you, I'd ask for you. They say that diplomacy is the backbone of modern human society, so it'd be good to try it out! And if negotiations fall through, then you can contend with it knowing that you did your best and that the two of you made your feelings clear.

[ and it's as simple as that. ]